Two Kinds of Lovers

In the Program

Often, we experience jealousy within or from others, anger and hate from disappointments, suspicion or doubt; lack of integrity from those who do not to follow through on commitments or lack of authenticity outside of integration. Depression and sadness is very common as most people are suffering a broken heart, too. It’s very, very messy in the matrix and not really pleasant most of the time for this reason.

There are the thrills too, like when we “fall in love”. It feels wonderful when we are recognized for our skills or when we help someone and make a positive difference in their life. It is exciting and joyful to play with a friend, especially when two share common interests and it always feels wonderful to be recognized, compensated and thanked for our talents.

This path in life filled with lots of drama, feelings, encounters and mayhem is called “the path of up and downs”. When we live in the matrix we live in a constant stream of ups and downs, sadness to happiness and from contentment to agitation and experience the relationships that are created from this highly dramatic, emotional human nature.

Inside this path of “ups and downs”, there are two, distinct groups of humans that live in this place of duality. Following is an overview of these two types, which tend to fall in love, often, and foster this immense, dramatic path of life in the program on the planet.


Two Kinds of Humans

Two kinds of Lovers


There are two primary types of humans:

1) Intellectual, mental type

2) Sensitive body-feeling type

This is also the distinction between what is known as “Emotional and Non-emotional” in Human Design.

Ancient sciences have been sharing this knowledge for eons – this is not new information. Keep in mind too, that every human has an emotional body, regardless of type, which is why these terms: “emotional and non-emotional” can be highly confusing.

Each of these two types of humans respond in spontaneous awareness, in the moment, yet, they work in two vastly, different ways, as outlined below. There is no need to wait and push away, you can actually respond in the moment correctly, even if you have a defined Solar Plexus and are considered “emotional”.

“Sensitive” is a better, more accurate term for the Solar Plexus defined.


 1. Intellectual Type

If one understands that they are an intellectual type, one can quickly recognize their balance point inside their system from where decisions are made – “the decision-making zone”. This is an easy, fast technique for one to see where their mind is operating from when they are faced with a decision. If one is aware of this balance point, all one needs to do is go to this special place of balance to see how to respond when confronted with a decision. It is consistently in the same place and is a solid reference point inside the body that one can easily rely upon. One must be centered, calm and composed for this technique to work and recognize the response from a balanced state. This center point will not work properly if one is responding out of a violent emotion or feeling.

The intellectual type who does not know of nor discovers this center can easily be cheated, manipulated or taken advantage of. However, if the intellectual type discovers and uses this center point inside the body to determine what is correct, they can never be shaken, never cheated nor taken advantage of. Those who use this center point as a guiding mechanism in decision-making are always successful and never repent what they have chosen as it is always correct. Confidence in one’s decision is a tremendous feeling to hold in the body ~ and mind.

There is no deliberation or thought process with this method. Again, this technique is spontaneous and it is consistently in the same place inside the body for this type of human – an important point to keep in mind.


2. The Sensitive Body-Feeling Type

This type of person cannot grasp the center point intellectually, they must go into their body and feel certain sensations. The awareness that comes with the sensitivity takes time to develop.

The sensitive body-feeling type can actually feel emotions connected to internal organs, which naturally feel and respond to thought-currents. However, it takes time to interpret this body sensation language and to learn how to use it for making a decision in the moment. Awareness of the body sensations is very different from how we are taught and programmed to think and function in a traditional, educational environment.

If the body-feeling type tunes into their internal organs, they can actually “see” which chakra is being activated in response to a decision, an idea or in connection with another person. This awareness demonstrates the intention and the psychology of the interaction, which provides the ability to move consciously in the right direction.

If the body is allowed to assist with navigation, it naturally heals itself as it moves into correct time and space, which naturally moves energy in the right direction, without thought or mind or an emotional reaction. Life just flows as the body knows.

In this space of awareness, one moves in peaceful, heart-felt interaction with compassion, which affirms correct alliances, correct environment and key connections for work or collaboration.


and Romance

The sensitive, body-feeling movement through life is holographic, kaleidoscope-like and expanded in multi-directions in contrast to the linear, singular view of the intellectual type.

You can see that these two types are vastly different and often, these two types are attracted to each other. Often, these two types enter into romantic relationships because they are so intrigued by the difference and unique feeling that the other brings who is focused and “in love”.

Yet, it can create very confusing, messy circumstances trying to understand and adopt each other’s movement through life; even more so when the chemistries merge through love-making and the two become one. This is probably the main cause for such mayhem in the program: merging auras, becoming one and the confusion that comes with it.