The #1 Insanity

There are common ego games in the matrix that happen with all interaction to some degree, while creating tremendous hell and difficulty for everyone. These petty games are responsible for most of the pain that humans endure.

These games are unfortunate happenings because they are precisely what foster a lot of the negative, dark energies that color most people’s reality, feeding the insanity brewing on this planet. It also slows down the spiritual maturation evolutionary process, tremendously.

In society, we find the behavior of personalities colored with competition, jealousy, gossip and back-biting, attacking another’s character and disempowering them in some way. Through orchestrating defeating situations, the arrogant one or the fearful, or the intimidated one manipulates events and circumstances to gain power over the other. This is the nature of relating socially and intimately, for most humans.

All low-frequency behaviors feed on anothers’ energy unconsciously, and sometimes consciously. This is the nature of the emotional, astral body: to stimulate an emotional reaction from the other and then feed on the elixir of nervous energy that is being released in some way, by the one who is being attacked. A demonic person will know how to strategize to get the emotional reaction and then, gloat in the glory of the feeding.

Another passively unkind behavior is avoiding and/or ignoring the emotional entanglements that create “bad vibes” such as, denial. It is like throwing fuel on the fire of incompletion or unfinished business. Its all bad, bad, bad energy that just keeps whirling around toxifying the planet and causing human evolution to move very slowly.

If more people practiced the art of completion, there would be so much less “dirty laundry” and the planet would have such a sweeter vibe.

One of the most powerful techniques for clearing this seemingly “dark” emotional energy whirling around is the ancient method taught in the Bhagavad Gita for maturing spiritually. This powerful method for healing and evolving one’s personal system is directly attending to emotional baggage swimming around in the mind causing distortion in the way a person perceives reality and experiences relating. Most people are creating and collecting more challenging karma rather than cleaning it out of their system and raising their frequency, hence, the ongoing human experience that keeps one locked in the cycle of death and rebirth. Humans only have so much life force to deal with so much crap.

Even if a small, group community began to practice the\is ancient technique of completion and clearing emotional baggage daily, truly, I believe that life on this planet would improve radically, quickly. Most people are reluctant to expand and evolve or take responsibility for their own reality, which is precisely what this method encourages. Many choose to remain in what they perceive to be a comfort zone of familiarity and the addiction to intimate relationships. Perhaps this is why sages choose to live far away from society and deep in the forest or high up on the mountain top where it is peaceful and free of this delusional reality.

Recently, my Guru made a statement: “Don’t make me responsible for your stupidity”

Whoa – Brilliant.

Hearing this caused me to pause and ponder the profundity of what was just imparted.

It also immediately brought to mind one of my family members who often spoke the words: “It’s in the Lord’s hands – he will take of care of it”

When I would hear this statement, I would think to myself: “Why can’t they just make a decision and take this situation into a better direction?”

Every time they repeated this statement, putting life in the lords hands, avoiding responsibility for their stupidity, I would cringe. Now I know why, they were placing the responsibility for their behavior, their decisions and their lack of accountability on some one else. They also died a miserable, sad, painful death because they refused to face how their decision-making was impacting and creating their reality.

This is precisely why I call this lack of responsibility and its companion, “blame”, the number one insanity. Avoiding responsibility and placing blame on another is outrageously insane and toxic to the human social experience. It just keeps us stupid and unaware when we choose not to use intelligent navigation and decide someone else is responsible for our behavior, our thoughts, actions and decisions.

Since hearing this statement most recently, I have been observing how I think, speak and navigate and how much of it tends to be colored by blame or the tendency to avoid taking responsibility. I don’t want to be stupid anymore. For this reason, if something feels slightly off, unkind or unfair, I look to see what kind of stupid decision was made to create the unpleasant situation in the first place. Next, I look to see how I could have made a better decision and apply that realization as a training ground for my mind to cognize differently, from a place of higher intelligence, higher awareness that is more kind to me, in the long run. Responsibility equals better decision which brings the right people, the right environment and much better life experiences.

The key here, I have found, is to remove delusion. That’s tough to do because it demands spiritual maturation and independent, autonomy for one’s well being while managing desires and clearing distorted conditioning. This goes against the nature of tradition and how most of us have been taught to think and behave. For the matrix, the program has been designed to feed on the delusion that is spurred by our desires. All advertising and marketing is based on this delusion that is built on the basis of desire, which is often, very disempowering.

Instead of being responsible, mature adults in our interaction, we become puppets of insanity distracted from true relating and far from real, loving, honest, mature, compassionate, comrades that could be possible in human relating and conversation.

For the next week try these few exercise to mature your thinking, actions and speaking :

1) Observe how many times you place blame on another for your own behavior or experiences

2) Observe how many times you move according to your desires – instead of higher intelligence

3) Observe how many times you speak about someone unkindly (gossip) or highlight a persons weakness to another in conversation

4) Ponder the results of how you have navigated and the decisions that you have made over the past year

5) Observe your state of health and how it is impacted by the company of those who you choose to spend time with

6) Observe how your body reacts to the foods that you eat

7) Observe what kind of input your are conditioning your mind with on a regular basis, i.e.: music, TV, movies, social media, etc. and how it is creating your thoughts, shaping your character, feeding your desires and delusions.

For instance, in a recent conversation with an acquaintance, repeatedly they used degrading titles when referring to others. A mutual friend standing near insisted that this acquaintance use peoples names when referring to them rather than the degrading title that was being used in conversation half-hazardly.

As the evening went on, awareness grew inside the acquaintance as she realized how social media was shaping her character, her speech and her quality of social interaction causing her to use these degrading titles as a social standard.

Dr Moto’s work regarding the influence on crystal formations of water influenced by words proves that what we speak, hear and think ultimately shapes our reality. After all, the human body is approximately 90% water. Imagine the impact of harshly spoken words, ill-intent or degrading lyrics, horror movies, spiteful lies or lusty cries.

Let’s put some effort forth to engage in mindful, mature conversation this week. Let this change begin with us, here, through engaging in this mindful practice starting this week with the observation exercises outlined above.

Reflecting on the Yamas and Niyamas while applying these exercises can radically mature any human. Still, to this day, these ancient higher principles can be applied and used for how one behaves, chooses and interacts and can be considered as one of the most effective methods for shaping a beautiful, loving, kind, mature character. Keep these principles in mind as a foundational reference point as you move about in your day-to-day activities and interact with others.

Growing Enlightenment

How one chooses to grow in spirituality depends greatly upon how one approaches the object of their devotion. Often, one approaches a divine being through their desire to have things or through petition in prayer for better health. Fear is a motivation too, for connecting with a Higher Power as one seeks protection for one’s self or for the wellbeing of a loved one.

There are many reason why humans seek out a superior power and many similar approaches. Hence the purpose behind religions and the tendency to gather in social settings such as churches, synagogues, temples and mosques. Continue reading “Growing Enlightenment”

The Friend Test

Often, we choose our mate, our best friend or the environment that we live in based on our Root Patterns.

Root patterns are the habits and thought-currents that we carry buried deep within our psyche dictating how we navigate our life path. Root patterns are first created in the mother’s womb before a human is born and then deeply ingrained into the psychology the first year of life through food and affection.

How the infant was nurtured in this first year with food and the mothers thoughts while the baby is in the womb and then later, while in the mothers arms set the tone for how one ultimately moves through life. 

This is the foundation dictating all life experiences. A human naturally, unconsciously, chooses to interact with and surround themselves with those who assist in enforcing this first year of experience.

If the experience in the first year was dramatic and unkind, most of the people in a person’s life will be unkind and exerting behavior that is focused on disempowering, in some way.

If the person is surrounded by loving, supportive, kind and generous people who empower one into doing great things and living fully in responsibility and authenticity, chances are that this person has had a very loving mother who enjoyed nurturing and caring for the infant. 

It is that simple, truly. 

We can see the first year of life with its root patterns through the story that is written by the stars in an astrological profile, too. If one is unsure of how they were treated in the first year of their life, they can go in and look at the planetary activations causing the root patterns during this first year. 

It is this root pattern which instills the tendency towards “powerlessness” and causes one to step into the hands of those who do not support or empower one’s way through life. In this state of “powerlessness” governed by the root pattern, one becomes the victim of others insecurities, fears and tendency to suck on life-force.

Look around you.

Is there someone enforcing your lack of empowerment? 

Is someone making it difficult for you to follow through on your commitments and responsibilities?

If so, get rid of them immediately. This will solve all your sufferings and release you into a more positive flow with life events.

Those who gloat on one’s sufferings, contributing to one’s disempowerment are the main source of misery and struggle. Quickly, they become the poison that kills life force and ruins one’s ability to thrive, while they foster disease inside of you and derail the path towards a fulfilling life experience with rewards and positive opportunities. 

The one’s who disempower often, seem sweet, nice, kind and loving, especially at first. This where many become deluded through sexual attraction or need for acceptance and affection. However nice the other may seem, if they are not empowering one’s ability to thrive or be responsible they are the demon sucking energy and living off of the other’s suffering. The more that one becomes powerless, the more the demon occupies one’s inner space, taking over life force for it’s own pleasure. 

This is the most difficult place for one to be – assessing who is a demon and who is an angel because it requires one to be out of delusion and to be solitary at their core. This is the opposite of how the root pattern is developed in the first year of life when the infant is fully reliant on another human. This “solitariness” is a true state of conscious, self-realization and a higher state of awareness.

This observation of empowerment or lack of it can be tricky too because the mind so loves to rationalize its decisions as it is addicted to fulfilling the root patterns set in place at birth. 

One must see with clarity – not rose colored glasses attempting to “colorize” the lover into a caring individual. Most lovers are going to work against the tendency to empower their lover because they fear that they may lose what they have also become addicted to: life force streaming through hooks in the Solar Plexus (Pancreas, spleen and liver too). 

One will find that the true test of friend or foe is to merely observe who is empowering you and who is disempowering you and the sensations of the gut area (health of digestion and elimination) as the interaction between you and the other takes place. You can also observe who is laughing at your failures or making fun of you when you fall. This demonstrates who is feeding off your life force and the resulting feelings of disappointment that brew inside your heart, mind and astral emotional body. 

Those who are crafty at disempowering observe and test to find out what type of “buzz” words work for influencing the disempowerment and reactions that easily become food. There are obvious, unconscious behaviors that are played out by those who seek to disempower others. Some may even navigate their entire life through disempowering others, providing a surge of power that easily feeds the ego that is insecure or easily threatened while providing the astral food for the entities that live inside their being operating the demonic tendencies. Usually, this is unconscious behavior acting out the disempowering.

Those who wish to empower will not like those things or those people who disempower you nor the choices that one has made that compromise integrity and reputation. This is how you can tell who is your ally.

Usually, the one who is sincerely empowering you is not always seemingly most kind or “loving”  and usually doesn’t offer the sweet sensations that create the hook that grabs and binds, feeds and sucks through the Solar Plexus area. Rather, the one who empowers will tend to live their life as a true expression of self-empowerment, apply the disciplines that lead to their own personal freedom and most often, fulfill the responsibilities that position them as true leaders and authentic teachers of Truth and self-realization. Neither will be they be competitive, jealous, threatened nor amused at your failures. They have a strong distaste for compromising behavior while no need to compare or belittle. 

The test of a true friend is through observing who shows up when your down on your luck and offers the exact antidote for encouraging you to do what is right, protects your integrity and the far-reaching results of choices made in the moment.

And no, there is no judgement, no criticism or nasty reactions to your struggle – only compassion, patience, tolerance and kindness as you figure things out. Keep this in mind. If you experience judgement or criticism – it is not an ally or true friend only another hook seeking to suck your energy.

To recognize who the true ally is in your life requires healing the root patterns created by those who tended the first year of your life so that you can be in the right environment surrounded by the right people.

This may take some time and sincere efforts in seeking to understand who is truly directing your life: root patterns in your thought currents, others who wish to disempower you to have control over you for their own benefit or the blessed influence of higher intelligence encouraging your empowerment. 



Source: Dispensation on Kena Upanishads, vs 1, by Bhagwan Sri Nithyananda Parashivam

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